Babies choking on food

What You Need to Know

Terrified that baby-led weaning or feeding will cause your child to choke on solid foods? Here’s 8 tips to prevent choking when baby-led weaning, plus a list of foods to avoid.

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Baby-led weaning is a very popular–and now almost mainstream–way to introduce your baby to solids. Essentially, baby-led weaning is skipping purees and spoon feeding altogether and allowing your baby feed herself with finger foods. Your baby eats with you during family meal times–and often even family foods–right from the start, around six months of age.

The potential benefits of baby-led weaning are:

There are many benefits to baby-led weaning listed in my comprehensive guide.

But, won’t my baby choke?

A common concern is that baby will choke on solid foods. Now, choking is serious business, and although it’s very rare, it’s important that you’re aware of common choking hazards and that you are prepared (ie. take infant CPR and First Aid) just in case. But choking gets confused with gagging—which is completely different. Gagging is extremely common when babies are starting solids. The gag reflex keeps larger food pieces out of the wind pipe and near the front of the mouth, only allowing very well-chewed foods to the back to be swallowed. It’s a safety mechanism to prevent choking! And it happens A LOT if you choose the Baby Led Weaning route, especially in the beginning. It’s not a bad thing!

Here’s what you’ll find in this post:

  • The difference between gagging and choking
  • Why it’s important to let baby self-feed
  • Why it’s important to always watch your baby while they’re eating
  • Why it’s important to use a proper highchair
  • List of common choking hazards
  • Month-by-month list of appropriate foods (size, texture, shape)
  • Avoiding distractions at mealtimes
  • Why you should take infant First Aid and CPR
  • This is the number one choking hazard (and might surprise you!)

Yet I hear from many moms who want to try baby-led weaning, but are too terrified that their baby will choke on solid foods. Some good news recently came from a new study of 206 babies, called “A Baby-led Approach to Eating Solids & Risk of Choking.”  The study compared a group of baby-led weaners (whose parents were given extra education on how to safely practice baby-led Weaning)  to a “control” group.

The control group babies mostly started solids using the standard puree method. While the baby-led weaners did gag more at six months than spoon-fed babies, they gagged less by eight months of age. Because by this time, the baby-led weaners had gotten used to eating solids, and the pureed feeders were just starting! And there was no difference in the number of actual choking episodes reported between the two groups.

Gagging – why it’s nothing to be concerned about

Your baby will gag. A lot! Especially in those first few weeks of solid foods and if you’re letting your baby self-feed with finger foods. The best thing to do is to remain calm and cool and encourage your baby to work it out by staying positive, smiling, and NOT PANICKING. This is hard, but really important. If your baby sees you freak out, they might too, and it may possibly turn a normal experience into a scary one.

One common misconception is that gagging is the same thing as choking. Gagging is extremely common when babies are starting solids. In fact, as mentioned above, gagging is a safety mechanism to prevent choking when baby led weaning. Gagging doesn’t usually bother babies; but it does often bother parents! A potential benefit of introducing real foods sooner, is that the gag reflex is further forward in your baby’s mouth. This reflex moves farther back on your baby’s tongue as he ages.

In contrast to gagging, choking occurs when the air tube is blocked. If your baby bites off a perfectly round shaped piece of hard food, it is possible they will choke. But there’s a lot you can do to prevent it…

Here are my top eight tips to prevent choking when baby-led weaning:

1. Let your baby self-feed

If you put food into your baby’s mouth, it may immediately fall to the back of your baby’s throat, without having a chance to control it with their tongue and chew it. In the study quoted above, a total of three out of 206 babies choked to the degree they required emergency health care assistance. Of these three babies, two choked on milk and the third choked when food was placed in its mouth. Moral of the story? Never put a piece of food into your baby’s mouth.

Your baby might enjoy experimenting with a self-feeding spoon. It’s also going to be a messy learning experience, so you may want to stock up on bibs!

2. Watch your baby while they eat

While you can hear your baby gagging, you can’t hear them choking. Choking is often silent, which is why it’s so important that you sit down and eat with your baby. Don’t continue preparing food, do the dishes or go put a load of laundry in. I know that it’s tempting to multitask (I really do!), but when baby is learning how to eat, it’s important to be there to supervise and facilitate a positive and safe experience.

3. Use a proper high chair

It’s important to make sure that your baby is comfortable and secure in their highchair (I love this feeding highchair!). Their feet should ideally be resting on a firm surface and their legs should be bent at a 90 degree angle. This helps to make sure that baby is focusing more on eating and less on keeping their bodies upright and balanced (and prevents a very wiggle baby!). And unless there’s a risk of your baby falling or climbing out, I preferred not to buckle the high chair with my babies. That way you can get them out quickly, if needed. Make sure baby is sitting upright, and not in a reclining position.

4. Don’t offer food in choking-hazard size

Your baby’s air pipe is about the width of one of their finger nails, so it’s important to serve thinly sliced foods. Avoid round items like whole grapes, cherries, nuts, berries, cherry tomatoes and wieners. Instead, slice them in halves or quarters.

Things like big gobs of peanut butter, popcorn and stringy fruits and vegetables are also choking hazards. For harder fruits and veggies, I like to cut them in the shape of a potato chips: long enough for a beginner to grasp, but thin so that choking isn’t likely.

Here’s a full list of potential choking hazards:
  • Hard vegetables raw, such as cut baby carrots or raw beets
  • Firm fruit with and without peels
  • Chunks of firm meat or cheese
  • Fruits with pits or seeds (that haven’t been removed), like a whole plum or peach
  • Whole grapes
  • Popcorn
  • Marshmallows
  • Whole nuts
  • Fibrous and stringy foods like celery, pineapple, or asparagus
  • Hard candies, mints, or cough drops
  • Fish with bones
  • Snacks with toothpicks or skewers
  • Whole hotdogs or sausages
Alternative ways of serving:
  • Steam vegetables and fruit.
  • Peel and grate hard vegetables and fruit like carrots, parsnips, apples, and zucchini.
  • Grate cheese.
  • Always remove pits and seeds from fruit.
  • Slice grapes into lengthwise halves or quarters.
  • Thinly spread peanut butter or any other nut or seed butter on toast.
  • Debone fish.
  • Serve fresh, frozen, or canned (rinsed) corn instead of popcorn.

5. Offer appropriate size, texture and shape of food

Through the ages of 6 to 12 months, you can expand the textures and sizes of foods that are suitable to serve. As babies grow, they slowly develop more mature chewing and swallowing skills, as well as better finger dexterity and fine motor skills. This helps them handle firmer, smaller pieces of food. As you watch your baby eat, you will notice changes in the size of pieces that they can pick up.

In terms of texture, it’s important to steam fruits and veggies and test the foods to make sure you can mash them with your tongue on the roof of your mouth, especially in the beginning. It’s much easier to cough up a piece of soft food, than hard food!

Every baby develops at a slightly different rate, and that’s okay! While one baby might be ready to pick up small peas and blueberries by 9 months, another might not be ready until 11 months. These suggestions are just a loose guideline of which textures and sizes of food to offer at each age and stage. Of course, pay close attention to your own baby to know what’s right for them.

As your baby becomes a more confident feeder, move to the next stage. By the time they turn one, your baby will be self-feeding like a pro—you got this!



  • Meat and poultry: Minced; pureed; slow-cooked and shredded; or meatballs or patties
  • Low-mercury fish: Deboned, then soft-cooked or pureed fish
  • Eggs: Hard-boiled and mashed; omelets cut into strips; or scrambled
  • Legumes: Cooked and mashed or pureed beans, lentils and chickpeas. Silken or mashed firm tofu
  • Cheese: Thinly sliced or grated
  • Nut butter: thinly spread on toast strips; or stirred into infant cereal

Fruits and vegetables:

  • Soft fruits: Peeled and cut into large strips – try avocado or ripe pear.
  • Bananas: Leave half the peel on to help baby’s grip
  • Hard fruits and vegetables: peeled and steamed until soft, then mashed or pureed, or cut in large strips as finger food. Try green beans, carrots, zucchini or apples


  • Whole grains: Cooked and spoon-fed quinoa or oats.
  • Whole grain bread: Toasted and cut into strips.
  • Iron-fortified infant cereals: Mashed with breastmilk or formula .

Continue to serve any of the foods from 6-7 months, and progress to these textures when your baby seems ready:


  • Meat, poultry and fish: Medium-sized, soft-cooked pieces.
  • Legumes: Lentil or bean patties (see my homemade lentil patties here).

Fruits and vegetables:

  • Soft fruits: Medium pieces of soft or steamed options such as raspberries , kiwi, or peach
  • Raw vegetables and fruits: peeled and grated apple or carrot


  • Large-flake or steel-cut oats: Thicker than baby’s first iron-fortified baby cereals
  • Pasta: Bite-size cooked shapes, such as penne or macaroni
  • Firmer grains: Farro or barley

Continue to serve the foods above, and progress to these textures when your baby seems ready. Now that baby has better dexterity, pieces can be smaller.


  • Meat, poultry and fish: Smaller pieces of pulled roast chicken
  • Legumes: Cooked whole beans or lentils and cubed firm tofu.
  • Dairy: Cheese cubes.

Fruits and vegetables:

  • Hard vegetables: smaller pieces of raw peeled cucumber or steamed carrot coins
  • Dried fruit: Cut apricots or whole raisins.
  • Fruits: Raw small pieces, such as sliced grapes and small whole blueberries


  • Pasta: Offer as part of mixed meals, such as ravioli, spaghetti and meatballs, or soup.

6. Don’t let your baby play with toys or watch TV during meals

Your baby needs to focus on learning the new skill of eating. And a distracted baby is more likely to choke! Remove all distractions, including toys and screens.

7. Take an infant CPR class

Chances are, your baby will be fine and not have a choking episode, especially if you’re following the tips above! Despite this, before anything else, this is priority number one. Make sure you take a baby first aid and CPR training course. Find one through your local hospital, public health center, or community center. It’s so important to be confident and knowledgeable about how to react in an emergency like choking way, you are confident in dealing with choking if it does happen.

8. Be careful with this one food, in particular

The #1 most common food that Baby-led Weaners choke on is full apples. I suggest serving apples peeled, sliced thinly and steamed for beginners. Once your baby is older, you can use a cheese grater to grate hard foods like apples. Here’s a great Flourless Oatmeal Apple Muffin recipe to try too!

I hope that these tips to prevent choking help you feel more confident in using Baby led Weaning!

Commonly Asked Questions About Choking and Baby-Led Weaning

How can I help a choking baby?

Prepare yourself by taking an infant CPR and first aid training course. Find one through your local hospital, public health center, or community center.

What are the benefits of baby-led weaning?

It’s important to know that there is no single “right way” to introduce solids to your baby, whether you want to start with traditional spoon-feeding or try baby-led weaning). There are many potential benefits to baby-led weaning, including improved dexterity, early oral-motor skill development, self-regulation, ease for parents, decreased picky eating and more.

What are the best baby-led weaning foods?

Safe finger foods include: pieces of soft-cooked vegetables and fruits; soft, ripe fruit such as banana; finely minced, ground or mashed cooked meat, deboned fish, and poultry; grated cheese; and whole grain toast strips with a thin layer of butter or nut butter. More baby-led weaning tips.

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Babies Gagging vs. Choking When Starting Solids

Adie, 12 months, gags on a small piece of bread.

What is gagging?

Gagging is a natural protective reflex that results in the contraction of the back of the throat to protect us from choking. Just like the reflexive kick that occurs when the doctor taps your knee in just the right spot, the gag happens automatically, initiating a rhythmic bottom-up contraction of your pharynx (the tube that leads to your stomach) to assist in bringing food up and to stop the swallowing reflex from making our bodies try to swallow. 

>> Just starting solids? Check out our virtual course (includes videos on infant rescue) as well as our guides and recipes on for the best first foods for baby. And if you are struggling with the transition from spoon feeding / purees to self-feeding with table food, watch our Spoons to Fingers video.

This page has been created with typically developing infants and children in mind. The information here is generalized for a broad audience and is for informational purposes only. If your child has underlying medical or developmental differences, including but not limited to prematurity, developmental delay, hypotonia, airway differences, chromosomal abnormalities, craniofacial anomalies, gastrointestinal differences, cardiopulmonary disease, or neurological differences, we strongly recommend you discuss your child’s feeding plan with the child’s doctor, health care provider or therapy team. The opinions, advice, suggestions and information presented in this article on gagging are for informational purposes only and are not a substitute for professional advice from or consultation with your pediatric medical or health professional. If your child is having a health emergency, please call 911 or your emergency medical resource provider immediately.

How Babies Swallow

Swallowing is a complex reflex with multiple lines of defense built in to prevent choking. These actions happen reflexively, meaning the brainstem tells our body to do them–they are involuntary. There are three important lines of defense that we have with every single swallow. 

1. When we swallow, our vocal cords, which are like sliding doors inside the breathing tube, come together, closing off the airway and preventing food from entering the lungs. 

2. The muscles of the throat pull the breathing tube slightly up and forward, tucking it safely out of the way of the food passing.  

3. The epiglottis, a tiny flap of cartilage, tilts down to cover the airway forming a tight seal with the joints that help move the vocal cords. 

Just like any good system, we have back up already built in. We even have back up for those back ups that are activated if needed. For example, if anything gets too close to the opening of the airway, even before it gets a chance to get in, the vocal cords immediately close (the technical name for this is the laryngeal adductor reflex), and our body immediately coughs to push the item away from the breathing tube. Our bodies are quite skilled at keeping us safe.12

What is the difference between choking and gagging?

First, it is important to distinguish the difference between gagging and choking. 

True choking is when the airway is obstructed, and the baby is having trouble breathing. Signs of a baby choking can include: 

  • inability to cry
  • difficulty breathing
  • skin tugging into the chest
  • look of terror
  • high-pitched sounds
  • skin color changes (ranging from blue to purple to ashen-like)

If you suspect baby is choking, immediately administer infant choking first aid with alternating back blows and chest thrusts and call 9-1-1 or local emergency services on speakerphone so your hands are free. If another person is present, one person should immediately perform choking first aid while the other calls for help. Conduct age-appropriate CPR if you believe baby’s airway is open, but the child is not breathing.

On the other hand, gagging is a common protective reflex that results in the contraction of the back of the throat. It is a natural function and protects us from choking. When this happens, it’s important to let baby work the food forward on their own. Refrain from sticking your finger in baby’s mouth, which can push the object further down the throat, making the situation worse. 

We strongly recommend you take a CPR class online or at your local health facility and review safety procedures. Our choking, gagging & infant rescue video can also help you visualize the difference. Further resources:

  • American Red Cross: Child & Baby CPR
  • American Heart Association: Infant CPR Training Kits
  • Harvard Health: Heimlich Maneuver on an Infant

What is gagging in babies?Leo, 6 months, gags on small particles of broccoli on his tongue.

Gagging is a completely normal reflex in infants, children and adults alike. Gagging is very common and will happen a lot in baby’s solid food journey. All babies gag in their eating journey—it’s one way they learn how to eat. The good news is that babies typically outgrow gagging after a couple of months of practice with various textured foods.

Babies gagging on food is normal

Babies often gag well before they start solids, when breast or bottle feeding. This typically occurs when baby either isn’t properly latched, and the nipple triggers the reflex, or if the baby isn’t ready to swallow milk for whatever reason. Some babies gag when mom’s letdown is too fast. Others gag when they need to catch their breath instead of swallowing. Many babies will gag on a pacifier or certain bottle nipples if they aren’t familiar with them. All of these gags occur because the brain is trying to protect the baby from swallowing an “intruder,” or something the baby isn’t ready to swallow. This gag reflex typically lessens over the first few months of baby’s life when baby gets “desensitized” and learns to accept it (pacifier, nipple, or food texture) without gagging. This occasional gagging at a young age does not seem to bother most infants.

Interestingly, the gag reflex of a 6- to 10-month-old baby is much more sensitive and can be triggered more forward on the tongue than an adult.3 4 This is why babies gag easily: the more forward the gag trigger is on the tongue, the easier it is to trigger.5 It is not uncommon for babies to gag (and occasionally vomit) for the first few weeks of solids. If baby repeatedly gags and vomits past the first month of starting solids, consult your pediatrician, who may refer you to a swallowing specialist.

Watch our video on gagging and all of the other normal, sometimes nerve-wracking things babies do while starting solids.

Cooper, 6 months, gags on applesauce.Ronan, 7 months, gags on a flattened blueberry, spits up some, and carries on eating.Quentin, 8 months, gags and coughs on some bread with avocado. Bread is notorious for triggering gagging as it sticks to saliva on the tongue.

Gagging helps prevent choking

When the gag reflex is triggered, it forces the back of the throat to close, essentially preventing swallowing.  If food caused baby to gag, the reflex forces the food (or object) forward towards the front of the tongue. Young infants naturally open their lips when they gag, which means that typically, the food or object that caused the gag keeps moving out of the mouth. 

Gagging is completely normal and incredibly important for baby’s safety, both at the table and away from it.

Gagging helps babies learn to eat

For babies to build the skills for chewing and managing all foods (not just easy-to-chew foods), we need to give them opportunities to make mistakes, like taking a too-big bite of food. When a baby bites off too much food and cannot properly move it around to chew, the gag reflex will kick in and help thrust the food forward. The experience teaches baby that the food was too big to swallow. These experiences are essential for learning and building confidence in biting and tearing. Over time, baby will learn to take smaller bites and become more adept at moving food around to chew properly.

Once baby is a few weeks into their solid food journey, you can use the gag reflex to your advantage. Offer foods that are not as easy to chew to help advance baby’s oral development more quickly. When poorly chewed food touches the tongue, the gag reflex will do its job, and baby will learn they need to chew the food more. 

It’s important to challenge baby before they get too accustomed to mashes and soft foods. Babies quickly learn that chewing and swallowing mashes and other easy-to-chew foods easily satisfies their hunger with minimal work. Many babies won’t bother trying to improve their skills with tough consistencies that require more biting and tearing, and may refuse the challenging foods and wait for the easier foods.

Hillis, 6 months, gags on a vegetable purée. Addie, 9 months, gags and coughs on asparagus and successfully moves it forward out of her mouth.Ysabella, 8 months, gags on purple dragon fruit

Why is my baby gagging? Gagging is easily triggered

When it comes to young babies, the gag reflex is pretty easy to trigger. Touch the middle of the tongue, and many babies will gag. If you watch a 3- to 4-month-old baby mouthing their hands and fingers, you will see them gagging themselves frequently. This is common and normal. Babies are typically not bothered by it and will often keep doing it. 

Our mouths are one of the most sensitive parts of our bodies. The human mouth has many sensory receptors to detect touch, taste, temperature, pressure, and other input types. Babies are driven to explore with their mouths to learn about their world simply because the mouth is sensitive. Mouthing exploration could be very unsafe if babies didn’t have gagging as a natural safety net.

Importantly, young infants have immature hand and finger coordination, which means they can’t easily remove something they put in their mouth. They also have immature oral motor (tongue and mouth) coordination. They can’t easily use their tongue to find an object in their mouth and spit it out. This is another reason the gag reflex is a safety reflex, as it allows a baby to put an object in their mouth and then push it back out again without letting it get close to the throat. As babies put things in their mouth, the gag reflex tells them when things are not supposed to be there and prevents it from moving too far back towards the throat.

The gag reflex moves further back in the mouth as babies age

From birth to around 7-9 months, the gag reflex is triggered close to the front of the mouth (around the middle of the tongue). At this age, the gag reflex is as sensitive as it will ever be.6 This is important for safety because objects (food or anything else) will quickly trigger the gag reflex and be pushed out of the mouth before they get past the middle of the tongue. 

Sometime around 7-12 months of age, the gag reflex slowly desensitizes. The gag trigger moves from the middle of the tongue to the back of the tongue towards the throat.7 At this point, food or objects can get much closer to the throat before the body recognizes something is too big to swallow and tries to push it back out. This might sound scary, but remember, our bodies are amazing! The gag reflex remains active and strong, so if something (food, barbie shoe, bug, etc.) hits the back of the tongue, the back of the palate (roof of the mouth), or even the back of the throat, the gag still kicks in. 

Mahalia, 10 months, gags on some orange stuck to her tongue. If you look closely, you can see the orange isn’t actually all that far back in her mouth, but more on the middle of her tongue. She recovers nicely and carries on eating.Adie, 12 months, gags and coughs on a piece of bread. Bread sticks to the saliva on our tongues easily and can trigger the gag reflex a lot. As you see here, Adie recovers nicely and carries on eating.

Babies gag on puréed food and jarred baby food, too

The threshold for what triggers a gag and the gag’s intensity is different in every baby, but most infants will go through a period where anything in their mouth thicker than breast milk or formula will cause a gag. The brain says: “Wait, this isn’t right! I shouldn’t swallow this! GAG!” Many will gag with spoon-feeding experiences even with runny, watery bland purées.  

Until the special day you decide to start solids, baby hasn’t had to manage anything but a watery-thin, fast-moving liquid. Enter something slightly thicker, slippery, and a different flavor — baby’s brain will kick in with protective mechanisms to gag and prevent swallowing this invading purée. This is usually short-lived because thin purées are quite similar to liquids and the texture won’t trigger a gag for very long. 

Babies know to push the tongue against a breast or bottle nipple to initiate suction and move the liquid backward to their throat. Spoon-feeding can present unique oral-motor challenges. With a spoonful of purée dropped on the middle of the tongue, baby has nothing to suck or push against and doesn’t yet know the skills to help move that food backward. Because they can’t move the purée backward quickly, it either continues to sit on the middle of the tongue or will start spreading around the mouth, which can lead to gagging. Many wise babies will suck on the spoon to help them quickly move the purée back to swallow, just like they do from a bottle or breast. Those babies, who now have a way to control the purée, will often easily swallow with minimal or no gagging.  

While not all babies who are spoon-fed gag, many do. Not surprisingly, when a baby is exclusively spoon-fed for a prolonged period of time (past 8 months of age, for example), that child may gag more when they start finger foods due to the lack of texture exposure.

Max, 4 months, gags on rice cereal.Levi, 6 months, gags on a vegetable purée. Jai, 6 months old, gags on a squash purée and mom (rightfully) asks her partner not to intervene.

Spoon-fed babies gag less at first but gag more later

When a baby is started on solids with thin, watery purées and pouches, the baby’s tongue receives less sensory input. While babies gag on purées too, they acclimate to the smooth texture or figure out how to use the spoon to suck back and swallow, which reduces gagging. However, all babies will frequently go through gagging periods when introduced to finger foods — whether 6-month-olds or older spoon-fed babies. When baby is first offered finger foods, the brain engages the safety call: “This doesn’t seem right! I don’t know how to move this! We shouldn’t swallow this food!” Often, this period of gagging will last longer with babies who started with spoon-feeding.8

In 2016, the “BLISS” study found that babies who follow a spoon-feeding approach to solids (spoon feeding smooth purées > lumpy purées > finger foods) tend to gag less at 6 months but more at 8 months and later.9 Remember: around 8 months, a baby’s gag reflex becomes less sensitive and moves further in the back of the mouth. This means that food is closer to the throat before the body reacts and tries to push it out.10 In other words, waiting to introduce finger foods until after baby is 8 or 9 months old may increase the choking risk as the gag reflex is less sensitive, further back in the mouth, and baby is not accustomed to textures other than soft foods from a spoon.

By 8-9 months old, a spoon-fed baby has been practicing a very specific skill to eat. “Purées come into my mouth. I suck or lift my tongue to move that puréed food backward, and I swallow it.” Babies will always start with the skill they know and try to use that same pattern on solid foods. They try to move that solid food straight back without the necessary step of moving the food laterally to their gums to chew. This motor pattern often leads to even more gagging.

The older the baby, the more aware they are of gagging and its unpleasantness. A 9-month-old baby is more aware of gagging than a 6-month-old baby. “Hebbian plasticity”—a fancy term that brain specialists use—tells us that neurons that fire together wire together. This means that when one part of the brain lights up simultaneously as another part of the brain, the brain starts to build a connection between those two areas. So, frequently gagging as the baby gets older and more aware of their body may be problematic for some babies who seem to draw a connection between real food and gagging. These babies seem to learn quickly that real food will make them gag and can lead to refusal of any food that is not a purée or mash. By contrast, younger infants don’t seem affected as much as older babies and toddlers. 

Baby-led weaning and gagging

At 6 months old, the gag reflex is necessary to exploring food. It’s what allows a young baby with almost zero chewing skills to put a piece of food in their mouth and, if it is too big to swallow, get that food safely back out. 

Infants learn how to do amazing things—sitting, crawling, walking, and running—by using reflexes, fumbling around, and making lots of mistakes while slowly building strength and adding one movement on top of another. The same applies when learning to chew—babies use reflexes coupled with fumbling as they learn. 

Amazingly, babies have two other key reflexes—the biting reflex and the tongue lateralization reflex— which help them learn to chew right away at 6 months. For foods to be properly chewed, baby needs to: 

  1. Take a bite. 
  2. Move that food to the side (tongue lateralization). 
  3. Munch up and down to break down the food down.
  4. Move the food back to the tongue for swallowing.

When babies first start finger food, they will struggle to use their biting and lateralization reflexes in any coordinated way. Simply put, they fumble around! As babies learn to eat, they won’t break down food enough to safely swallow, which requires the gag reflex to push the unchewed food back out. But every time baby does that, they are learning where the food is in their mouth. Slowly and incrementally, babies learn how to move food to different parts of their mouth. They learn their tongue can help push food around the mouth in lots of directions. They learn their palate, tongue, gums, and saliva will break the food down as it moves around their mouth. All of these actions turn a solid food into something like a mash! 

Some experts suggest that purees teach babies to swallow correctly, and gives practice swallowing solids before you introduce the idea of chewing. Most babies do not need to be taught how to swallow. Swallowing is a deep brainstem reflex present by 15 weeks gestation2 and well established by full term birth. Babies already know how to swallow; there is no need to practice! Interestingly enough, thicker textures are actually easier for babies to swallow (think purees), and our feeding therapists explain that babies who have swallowing difficulty are actually prescribed thickened milk to drink! But purees do teach baby a motor pattern: bring food in, move it back, swallow. This is a dangerous pattern because most solid foods require chewing before you move them back and can safely swallow. We believe that exclusive purees are time wasted because baby isn’t practicing chewing and is practicing a dangerous motor pattern that must be unlearned.

Interestingly, the BLISS study also demonstrated that infants who started solids with finger foods experienced more gagging at 6 months, but less gagging at 8-9 months as they developed more control and coordination in moving food around their mouth.11 This demonstrates that babies who are given the opportunity to work with finger foods early on in their solids journey—well before 8 months of age—develop the oral-motor skills required for mature eating more quickly than spoon-fed babies. 

After a couple of months, most babies who start with finger foods at 6 months of age develop the skill and coordination to chew and move well-chewed food backward to swallow safely. The baby feels comfortable with their skills and is accustomed to food moving in this way. The body won’t initiate a gag so readily. 

By contrast, babies who start solids with purées have had little chewing practice from 6-8 months. It’s likely they are less coordinated with moving food around their mouth, less able to break down the food, and less safe in the instance that the food gets pushed back further in the mouth than they can handle.

Levi, 9 months old, gags on a bite of watermelon. The juices in watermelon and citrus are notorious for causing gagging and it is completely normal.Callie, 9 months old, gags and coughs on butternut squash.Koko, 10 months, gags on watermelon.

How to help baby move past gagging by building skill

Successful eating is not just about chewing but about feeling where the food is in the mouth and knowing if it’s chewed “enough” to swallow safely. As adults, most of us can identify and discretely spit out a tiny piece of bone or eggshell from a bite of food. Because this is happening inside the mouth, we aren’t using our eyes; our brains visualize what’s going on inside our mouth, even though we don’t frequently see what’s going on in there. We have a mental image of our mouth and where everything is in relation to other parts. Babies don’t have this “mental map” of their mouth at first. 

To help you understand the necessity of a mental map, think about babies learning to stand. Before they can do this, they need to develop “body awareness” or, essentially, a mental “map” of where all their body parts are in relation to each other. Baby lays on the floor and slowly learns to roll around before they ever sit up. Rolling and touching their whole body—from head to toe—while their muscles push and pull helps form the mental “map” of their body. They need deep input all over their body to add all the details to that map. A small touch to one part of their body or a light brush of your hand over their body helps a little but isn’t really enough. It’s the floor’s firm input to the whole body while moving the muscles that really seems to form a clear map. 

The same goes for the inside the mouth. When things touch the inside of our mouth, a map slowly “draws” in our brain. As babies develops the map inside their mouth, they gain more control, figuring out how to move food around appropriately. They also become more confident in their skill to move food around. This control seems to help quiet the gag response and move it further back in the mouth over time. The baby does not need the gag reflex to eat once they have a clear map and strong coordination. They now have active control to chew the food, know if it’s chewed enough, move it back to swallow, or spit it out and try again.

We know that many types of sensory input in the mouth help babies form the “mental map,” but that bigger inputs are more effective than light sensory inputs. (Think about the difference between a tight hug versus a tickle on the shoulder.)

There are two types of input that feeding therapists know are most effective for sensory-motor learning: 

  • Touch or tactile input – when food touches a part or many parts of the mouth
  • Messages from the muscles and joints or proprioceptive input – when the mouth gnaws on firm or resistive foods that don’t break when chewing.

The simultaneous combination of tactile and proprioceptive input is most effective for forming the map. This is why feeding therapists frequently recommend giving resistive, flavorful foods like a rib bone for baby to chew. 

Foods like a rib bone accomplish the trifecta:

  1. Baby can hold the food, easily put it in their mouth, and pull it back out with their hands, which gives them control to keep the food at the front of their mouth even if they don’t have oral motor control.
  2. Baby gets big input to their mouth (touch input and muscle feedback as they bite on the bone), which maps the mouth and leads to better control in the future.
  3. Baby triggers two key reflexes (biting reflex and the tongue lateralization reflex), which mimic chewing and help baby build strength and coordination for future eating. 

Are these experiences for eating? No. These are “exercises” to help build a stronger connection between the mouth and the brain. Drawing a detailed map of the mouth contributes to decreasing the sensitivity of the gag. As this map develops, the baby also develops more confidence in their skill, further decreasing the gag’s sensitivity. 

Zuri, 9 months, munches on a mango pit. Mango pits are fantastic for working oral-motor skills and low risk as babies cannot bite through them. Quentin, 11 months, works on a spare rib. Spare ribs and even just the bone itself without any meat on it are terrific for helping to map the mouth.Amelia, 10 months, works on a chicken drumstick. For information on how to safely introduce drumsticks, see our Chicken page.Kary Rappaport, a Solid Starts feeding therapist, coaches Reza, 7 months, through a gag on a roasted beet.

Baby gagging on food and throwing up

Gagging with vomit is so hard to watch, though it is pretty normal for some babies just starting solids. Some babies have a stronger or more sensitive gag reflex than others, bringing food up when they gag. This is even more common in babies with a history of reflux. To minimize this reaction, consider these three things:

1. Make sure your baby has at least an hour between a milk feed and table food to let the stomach digest a bit. A super full belly can make a gag turn into vomit much more easily. For example, we often see vomiting with gagging at breakfast, as the belly is super full from a big morning breast/chest feed or bottle. 

2. Avoid the foods that tend to trigger the biggest gags for a while. Often, foods that produce lots of gagging are soft, mushy semi-solids like banana and avocado, or fruits and vegetables with skins. These foods can easily stick to the roof of the mouth or tongue and cause strong gagging that leads to throwing up (which often clears the food from the mouth).  

3. Offer tons of opportunities for practice with long, resistive, teether type foods (like a mango pit, a spare rib or other thick rib with all lose bits and gristle removed and most of the meat cut off, or a thick pineapple core that does not taper and won’t easily snap or break apart). These foods aren’t for eating, but for helping the brain learn about and desensitize the inside of the mouth. Gagging is the brain’s way of saying “something isn’t right here,” and mouthing these hard, resistive foods that baby can easily pull back out of the mouth helps the brain learn that food isn’t an “intruder.” Mouthing fingers, toys, and infant spoons as teethers outside of mealtimes can also help dampen that gag reflex a bit.

If you try these tips and your baby continues to forcefully gag and vomit at most meals, you may want to mention it to your child’s medical provider.

When to seek help

We recommend you speak with your child’s pediatrician regarding a referral to a feeding therapist if:

  • Baby continues to gag at most meals after an initial learning period (one to two months of finger foods).  
  • Baby is frequently becoming upset after gagging (crying, tantrums, vomiting).
  • Baby is vomiting at most meals, even on an empty stomach. 

Let’s normalize the gag

While it can be disturbing—and nerve-wracking to watch—gagging is a completely normal reflex in infants, children, and adults. Bottom line:

  • Babies will likely gag when they first start solids, regardless of starting on purées or finger food.
  • Babies who are spoon-fed thin purées are likely to gag less initially but gag more later on when they start finger foods.
  • Babies who start with finger foods tend to gag more in the beginning and less later on as their oral-motor skills develop more rapidly. 
  • All babies gag in their eating journey—it’s one way they learn how to eat. The good news is that babies typically outgrow gagging after a couple of months of practice with various textured finger foods.

Infant CPR & First Aid Resources

One of the most important things you can do to protect baby is take a CPR class online or at your local health facility and review safety procedures. Some resources:

  • American Red Cross: Child & Baby CPR
  • American Heart Association: Infant CPR Training Kits
  • MedlinePlus: Choking First Aid for Infants Under 1

Remember, you are responsible for supervising your child’s health care and for evaluating the appropriateness of the information in this article for your child.  Only you know your child and how your child will react to foods and feeding procedures. Although the information presented in this article is based on well-documented research by medical and nutritional professionals, it is up to you to review and consider the information and how it will work with your child. 

Always seek the advice of your pediatric doctor, nutritionist or health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition or feeding issue. You should refer to our Terms of Use for further information.

Reviewed by:

K. Rappaport, OTR/L, MS, SCFES, IBCLC

K. Grenawitzke, OTD, OTR/L, SCFES, IBCLC, CNT

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Child chokes on food | Mamovediya

Although the reluctance to swallow solid food is a natural response in many situations, and not just those involving food, infants and young children should not constantly choke.

If your child is constantly choking, or the face starts to turn red, or the skin around the lips turns blue, take your child to the doctor. In rare cases, this may indicate a problem requiring medical attention.

Although your father may be alarmed that you choke on the first spoonful of solid food, this happens quite often when the child starts eating. You have to learn to eat solid food.

In the sucking reflex, babies move their tongue to the front of their mouth and then up to the palate. They make 10 to 20 sucking movements, and then a big gulp follows. With solid food, however, the tongue must almost reverse, sending the food to the back of the mouth.

Learning to swallow solid foods is not easy for an infant. And during the learning process, he may choke if food is directed to his windpipe instead of his stomach.

You can, however, make eating a much easier exercise when the baby does not choke. To do this, you need to master new feeding techniques.

Here are some expert tips.

Wait until the child starts to sit up. If your child is constantly choking on food while eating, it is possible that he has not yet reached the stage of development at which he is ready for this. Your baby must be at least four or five months old before you start solid food.

What is the advice? Give the child solid food when he has already learned to sit more or less confidently. When your child eats while seated, gravity will help guide the food from the mouth into the esophagus.

Start with liquid food . When your baby is really hungry, breastfeed or give him a bottle first to satisfy his appetite a little. If your child is not so desperately hungry, he will be able to handle the difficult task of swallowing solid food more easily.

Eat rice. Rice grains are an ideal first food for children because children are rarely allergic to rice and can be thinned by mixing with plenty of milk.

Your baby will have less difficulty eating porridge if the consistency is more like liquids he is used to swallowing. Once your baby has learned to swallow rice porridge, you can gradually move on to thicker, coarser foods.

Let the first feedings be small . The first solid food feedings are for practice, not for real nutrition. An infant who is learning to eat only needs a few tablespoons of solid food a day to practice eating. The main nutrition should come from breast milk or artificial bottle feeding.

Start with a small amount of food . When your child opens his mouth, place a pea-sized portion of food on the front of his tongue. A large portion of food will make the whole process of swallowing more difficult for him, and if you put it on the back of the tongue, your child is likely to choke on it.

Do everything calmly, carefully and slowly. Take your time if your child is having difficulty with a new food.

If your child chokes on a particular type of food, such as potatoes or minced meat, pediatricians recommend not eating the food for a few days, then trying it again in a thinner consistency.

Do not overfeed your baby. If your baby vomits or chokes on every feed, it is possible that you are giving him more than he can handle.

In the first year of life, the baby cannot properly control the intake of food, so your task is not to overfeed him.

Watch for signs that the baby is full. He may begin to turn his head away or close his mouth when the spoon comes close to his lips.

What to do if a child chokes (these actions can save his life) | Lifestyle

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What to do if a newborn child chokes

Newborn babies don't have access to adult foods, toys and small items, but that doesn't mean they can't choke. Often children of this age choke on breast milk (when sucking, spitting up) or water.

Usually, the ingestion of milk or water into the respiratory tract does not have serious consequences for the crumbs: the foreign liquid easily comes out with a strong cough.

It is much less common for fluid to get stuck in the airways. To understand that the baby is suffocating, you can by the following signs:

  • The child has a hoarse voice or it is completely absent
  • The child begins to swallow air through his mouth, his stomach rises and falls strongly
  • The child has wide eyes
  • The child cannot breathe normally or cry.
  • The skin turns red at first and then turns blue.
  • In critical situations, the child loses consciousness

In this case, the child risks choking to death. What to do if a baby is choking? Immediately call the doctors, and while they are on their way, provide first aid.

To begin, lift the child's arms up. This method is little known, but it works. This posture expands the airways and normalizes breathing.

If this does not work, proceed to the next manipulation. Place the child with your stomach on your hand, with the edge of the other hand, make five pats between the shoulder blades. Pay attention: all movements should be sharp, but not strong, so as not to damage the internal organs of the baby.

If this method does not help, put the child on his back with his head turned to the side. Press your fingers on the area between your upper abdomen and lower chest. Do this towards the throat, as if pushing a foreign object out.

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To avoid such cases, it is very important to follow a few simple rules:

  • Breastfeed in the correct position. The child should be fully turned towards you, and his head should be at the level of your chest, but higher than in the supine position.
  • After eating, let the baby spit up air and excess milk. Hold it vertically with a "column"
  • Monitor the condition of the crumbs during feeding. He can choke severely even with a very small amount of milk in the respiratory tract

What to do if an older child chokes on food

Older children often choke on food. In no case do not try to get a piece of food stuck in your throat with your fingers: you risk pushing it even further. And there without surgical intervention it is no longer possible to cope.

Better use Helmitch method to remove the foreign object :

  • Stand behind the baby (for comfort, you can stand on one knee)
  • Place your arms around the baby's waist.
  • Make a fist with one hand and place it on the area between the navel and the child's ribs. Place the other hand with your palm on top
  • Now spread your elbows out to the sides and sharply press on the child's stomach from the bottom up, as if pushing out a foreign object
  • Perform this movement until a piece of food comes out

What to do if it is stuck in the throat bone

The most common foreign objects that doctors remove from the throat of children are fish and chicken bones.

Fortunately, in this case, the clinical picture is so pronounced that it allows you to act without diagnosis. As a rule, a bone stuck in the throat is accompanied by pain in the larynx, which is aggravated by swallowing. For this reason, the child simply stops swallowing saliva, which is why in babies it flows out of the mouth, and older children try to spit it more often.

In addition, the condition is accompanied by paroxysmal severe coughing and vomiting, as the body tries to get rid of the foreign body in the throat on its own.

In this case, don't try to act the old fashioned way by giving the baby a piece of bread. Bread will drive the bone even further into the throat and it will be even more difficult to get it out of there. Immediately call an ambulance, whose specialists will cope with the task in a few seconds.

What to do if a small child chokes on a small object

A small object may not close the airway, but fall into the glottis and linger in the trachea. In this case, the consequences can be no less threatening than if a foreign object did not allow the child to breathe.

At first, the foreign object in the trachea does not manifest itself in any way, then the child begins to cough.

Over time, a so-called capsule can form around a foreign object in the trachea, which will make it difficult to breathe and cause inflammation in the bronchi. The danger of finding a foreign body in the trachea is that not every mother can associate an unexpected cough with playing Lego. Most likely, she will write it off as a cold.

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But a foreign body that stays in the trachea and bronchi for a long time can lead to chronic inflammatory processes in the lungs and even fit into the clinical picture of cancer.

Don't leave your little one alone with building blocks and other small items. Even a relatively adult and intelligent child can play too much, and then the consequences will be disastrous. If trouble nevertheless happened, urgently consult a doctor who, using bronchoscopy, will detect and remove a foreign object.

Prevention of trouble

To avoid having to urgently remove objects from the child's respiratory tract every time, take precautions.

  1. Keep a close eye on your child while playing. Before you have time to look back, he is already dragging a button found on the floor into his mouth.
  2. Thoroughly remove stones from fish, chicken, fruits and vegetables. For a small child who has not yet erupted all of his milk teeth, chop the food well, making sure that there are no large pieces left.
  3. No games or table talk. While eating, the child should calmly eat, without being distracted by anything.
  4. Never force feed your baby. By stuffing food into his mouth when the child resists, you can provoke food particles to enter the respiratory tract.
  5. Toys with small parts are only suitable for children over three years of age. We advise you to wait with them for a couple more years, when the child, in principle, stops exploring the world, dragging everything into his mouth.
  6. If you buy soft toys for your child, carefully inspect the pile - it should not be too long. In addition, it must be pulled out with effort.

Something got in the nose

A child stuck a button or a cherry stone in his nose. What does every mother do? He immediately tries to remove the foreign object, which further aggravates the situation by pushing the object deeper into the nasal cavity.

Often you do not immediately discover that the child has something in his nose.

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